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In my adult life (which I count from when I turned 25-its almost a decade later) I have only had to real instances of petty drama in my life. I am not really one for the dramatics unless its fashion *snaps in Z formation* This is partially because of my confrontational nature. I would much rather address an issue head on and lay it to rest, if there is in fact an issue. However, even more than that I rather not have any issue at all-LOL, if only life were so simple.
In my first instance of petty drama, honestly, in hindsight, its something I could have removed myself from before it became the issue it became. However, my ego, my pride and my general assholery aptitude would not allow me to do it. As such, the issue spun into a mega issue that involved so many people. When I finally realized, that 1) I had allowed myself to be pulled ALL THEE WAY OUT OF CHARACTER, 2) I let myself be controlled by something other than my brain to a point of ridiculousness and 3) I included others in my fuckery is when I finally removed myself from the situation. When I did finally remove myself from that situation I had to admit to myself that even in the aspects where my stances in the matter were valid-it really wasn’t that serious for me to have invested the amount of energy I did into the whole shit. That was definitely a growing and a turning point for me.
In my second instance of petty drama, I did what I did best-I had exercised what I learned from the previous lesson. I nipped that shit in the bud. I removed that person from my life and as I stopped to give praise today for all of the amazing things Gd has done for me over the years-I had to yet again thank him for the gift of discernment and thank him for allowing me to make mistakes I could learn from-mistakes not to harm me but to improve me. Since ridding myself of this person the drama level in my life has been exponentially lower. I don’t even think I was fully cognizant of how much drama I allowed this person to contribute to my space until I eliminated the person.
People only do what we allow them to do. As someone wisely reminded me recently, YOU CAN ALWAYS LEAVE. When a situation or person or whatever is bringing more stress in your life than good-heed that advice-LEAVE. Eliminating petty drama from your life frees your mind up to focus on your goals. It allows you to channel that energy towards reaching your goals rather than using that energy to deal with pettiness.
Stress Free is the way to be…I am very thankful for both of the aforementioned situations. One allowed me to grow the phuck up and the other allowed me to weed out some snakes in the grass. The castle has only gotten bigger and the circle has gotten smaller and I am all the better for it.
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